Well, I've been telling my besties about my ever-so-entertaining-and-full-of-surprises boyfriend - Ryota regarding his ever-so-entertaining-and-full-of-surprises behaviour. Geez, why am I repeating myself here? Never mind, let's get to the point.
Couple of weeks ago, we were having a few drinks with some friends at one of the pubs. It was a really chilly night and we're standing outside with everyone to discuss where we should head to next. Being a girl, dressing up is a major thing for us. That night, I chose to wear a tight sleeveless, high waisted skirt matched with black leggings and a pair of cute pumps. And my jacket? A one layered a.k.a. thin black short trench coat. It's the only coat that would match my outfit that night, as I didn't feel like wearing a knee-length trench coat. I was shivering (good thing, burns off the calories!), and I turned to Ryota and said,"Ryota, I'm cold." He was talking to one of the friends and turned to me and said,"Oh." Turned back to his friends and continued talking. A bit annoyed that he didn't get it (expecting him to hug me and give me some warmth), I said again,"Ryotaaaaa... I'm cold." Another "Oh" from him. Third time, fourth time... I gave up after the fourth time, starting to get a bit pissed off.
While we're on our way to the car after decided where we should head to next, I "lectured" him that he ignored me when I said I was cold. Here's the conversation (couldn't remember the exact words, but it's close enough):
Regina: Why did you ignore me when I said I was cold?
Ryota: What did you want me to do?
Regina: Well, at least hug me and rub my arms to warm me up.
Ryota: ...... Why did you wear so little then?
Regina: =_=" (hit him on the arm) This is what I feel like wearing tonight, I thought you want me to look good and dress up when we go out.
Ryota: Oh, ok. Well, I don't know what you want when you said that you're cold.
Regina: (Annoyed yet amused) Next time when I said I'm cold, do what I have just told you.
Ryota: Haha... Ok.
When I "complained" to some of my Japanese female friends, they laughed and first thing they said was "typical Japanese man". Aiyooooo... =_=" Another cultural difference incident again.
I'm sure you'll ask,"Again? What do you mean again?" Oh well, there were a few tiny little things. I will list it out in dot points below:
- Finish the food without asking me if I still want to eat or not when I turned away watching TV, or talking to friends etc.
- When it comes to Chinese cuisine, we share a few dishes. He didn't scoop any of the food for me to eat, only scoop for himself. Even if I scooped a few times for him hoping that he would get it, but he didn't.
So, basically, I have "taught" him to be a gentleman in Chinese Malaysian way and he learnt it well. I wasn't mad at him (was annoyed at first) as I found out that Japanese normally have the dishes to themselves, instead of few big plates in front and everyone shares it. He wasn't used to having Chinese cuisine that way. But right now, he's used it, and I have no complains. Well, at least for now, hehehehe...